Okay we all knew it was coming sooner or later. I chose the sooner. So, if you know me, you know my outlook and opinions on sex. It has changed over the years but for right now I am at my firmest point in opinion. Does that make sense? Ha ha. Oh well. So my opinion on sex. WOW. I hope you are sitting down. Okay well, lets start off with single people. People, you are SINGLE!!! You aren't tied down to anyone. Go out, have fun, get laid. Who is it going to hurt? Don't sit at home complaining to your bff over facebook im about how much your sex life sucks. Log off (don't worry we all have facebook mobile now) and go out and have fun! That's all I have to say for you people. Next are my lovely married folks. Well guys, I'm sorry but you're married. You made a commitment. I hope you are in love and know what you are doing. Because sleeping with someone that isn't your husband/wife, well that's just wrong. Unless you guys are into that kind of thing, then you guys have my total and complete blessings. Have a good time. But please, no cheating. It's just not right. And not because you signed a piece of paper that says so, but because morally it's wrong. Okay, now we start with the toughies...boyfriends/girlfriends in the service or over/underage relationships. First, let me say something. There is a large difference between sex and making love. When you make love, it's to someone who you are probably in a serious relationship with, or you're married. Or maybe it's your best friend and you both just realized that you are madly in love with each other. Who knows. But that is making love. Sex, well sex is sex. There is nothing to it. You and some girl/guy, maybe somebody you even know, get together and you talk, you might drink, then you both realize how horny you are. So you find a condom, and you screw. That's it. I mean obviously there is more to it. It all depends on what you like to do, what your partner likes to do...you get the point. So back to my opinions. If your boyfriend/girlfriend is in the services...well this gets complicated. That is really left up to you guys. It's hard when one person in 8,000 miles away. If you guys have some sort of agreement, well all the power to ya. If not, girls its time to pay a visit to the sex shops and guys ...stock up on your porn. Better to be faithful then to be broken up with someone over ichat. And now, I've saved the best for last...over/underage relationships. This one is also hard. I personally don't' believe in age. It shouldn't matter. If you are 26 and you have feelings for a 16 year old, who the hell cares??? Ten years, big deal. Look at Hugh Hefner. Unfortunately the "higher powers" a.k.a. the government feels differently. It changes from state to state but in most of America the age of consent is 18. There are a few places where it is 16. Like VEGAS...such a beautiful place. Anyway, if you guys like each other then go for it. If you're gonna have sex, just keep in on the DL. Make sure you use protection. You don't want a pregnancy. That would get messy. You all have my blessings no matter what your situation is. We live in a free country, do what you want. Just try and be smart about it.
xoxo
Alicia
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